BDSM Guide for Beginners

BDSM Guide for Beginners

BDSM is all about exploration and kink toys are the tools we use to experience various sensations.

The truth is, we all need to start somewhere; There are so many different toys that can help you figure out what you enjoy about BDSM.  Here are 10 different types of bondage toys to help may you find the right ones to try next:

Hand Cuffs

A pair of basic handcuffs is the ultimate gateway bondage toy for any curious couple.  As cuffs are relatively a low-cost accessory it allows you to experiment with power play dynamics.  Your choices are; classic pair of metal handcuffs or maybe you prefer the comfort of soft velvety faux fur hand cuffs, either way there is something for everyone taste.  It is extremely important to be sure to have a conversation about limits and establish a ‘safeword’ before indulging into play that includes restraint. 

Blindfolds

Blindfolds are for your more sensory exploration is so beginner-friendly. A new way to heighten sexual experiences and the cost would be well in your budget.

Some examples; Start off sensory play with your partner wearing a blindfold while the other explores their body.  Remember that having your sight restricted can make you a lot more responsive to other senses like touch, taste, and smell.   I mean you could even try putting an ice cube in your mouth and trailing kisses down your partner’s chest and even letting them explore your body with kissable foreplay oil while blindfolded.

Low-temp Massaging wax

Why not try turning up the heat!  Try some hot candle wax that’s specifically designed for bondage.  Be aware that household candles can contain fragrances and dyes that can reach unsafe temperatures when lit, but candles at Sensual Sin for massages are specifically for wax play burn at a lower temperature so it does not burn your skin.  

Rope

Maybe a little rope bondage sparks an interest in you, we highly suggest getting a starter bundle of bondage rope.  Most starter ropes are inexpensive, but you may find yourself upgrading gear over time

Gag

Moving onto gags.  Gags are another classic bondage toy that you definitely have to try out at some point. It depends on your personal preferences and the size of your mouth, different styles of gags may work better than others.  While ball gags are a classic starter for most people, folks with smaller mouths might find standard ball sizes to be too large for long-term use

Nipple clamps

Not sure about you but there is nothing like having a pair or two or nipple clamps in your toy bag for when the mood strikes.  Nipple stimulation can be incredibly erotic but it’s not for everyone so test out pinching and pulling by hand before investing in a pair of clamps.  Be  mindful that there are a few different styles of nipple clamps to choose from.  Remember that pain from wearing nipple clamps can get more intense over time and usually climaxes once you remove the clamps and the blood rushes back to the area.

Paddle

The classic paddle is a fantastic starter bondage toy for budding sadomasochists.  The paddle makes a great low-cost option for folks looking to explore the sensations of light spanking.

Crop

Crops tend to be very stingy, as they have a concentrated area of contact when compared to a paddle or flogger. It’s a lot of fun to contrast this with softer sensations to keep your partner guessing. 

Remember that bondage includes a very broad spectrum of activities and these are just some starter ideas to get your creative juices flowing.  Don’t limit your exploration to these toys alone and visit our bondage/BDSM page for more toys. There are tonnes and tonnes of different kinds of toys for pleasure and pain and you deserve to try them all!

Happy Shopping!